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Theory
Male Sexuality is where Fantasy meets Reality -- men have sex in Reality, but are driven by their Fantasies... It's the Fantasy that fuels the Reality... The species is dependent upon Fantasy to beguile men so they are addicted to sex and continue propagating... TV is the educational tool of Fantasy Sexuality, training men to be Fetish Addicts...
Female Supremacy can always be established by The WOman invoking the essential Mother-baby boy relationship, reducing a man to a level of utter dependence upon her.  She then controls the man through nurturing (WOm) or through violence (WAm).  Nurturing, which can be teasing and titillating, inspires love and awe for The Dominant WOman. Violence, from beatings to killings, is the continuation of the Dom-Mommy spanking the bad boy and re-asserting Her natural position of authority in the universe.
Fetishistic Transference is a sexual psychology phenomena where desire is first driven by a body part, such as the leg, but the power of the desire is then transferred to an object that covers the leg, such as the nylon... This is easily recognizable in the foot fetishist who goes on to worship shoes, the breast man who becomes enamored of bras, the ass man who just can't get enough of a girl's panties... Female clothing empowered as sexual objects, an extension of Female Dominance by exciting male desire... (Which isn't all that bad for a guy when he can't get the girl -- at least he can always get the clothes...)
Sex & Death are inextricably linked... !WAm! roles explore the sexual dynamic of physical violence, while !WOm! "ogling" roles are a symbolic depiction of the male Orgasm as Death Experience occurring immediately upon beholding the Stunning WOman... To gaze is to cum is to die... And what, exactly, makes a WOman "mind-boggling?" Perhaps impossible to express --  a boggled mind does not easily comprehend the source of its befuddlement -- but the suspicion here is that a WOman stuns a man because when he contemplates her beauty his inner being (whatever the life force is that makes him what he is) becomes utterly aligned with his physical body, and at this moment he is essentially ready to shoot his whole wad and die for the WOman... And to think that this dynamic somehow preserves the species (and pays off mortgages, insurance policies, medical bills, school tuition, credit cards...)
There are 2 FlashPoints in the development of Media FemmeFetishes... 1) is the dropping of the Atomic Bomb in 1945, which radiated a sexual energy across the planet, changing the media projection of WOmen to hyper-erotic levels, at first embodied by Marilyn Monroe and fully fleshed out through the 60s... 2) is the Kennedy Assassination in 1963 which unleashed a torrent of Fetishistic Media as the world lost all inhibitions, essentially unlocking the closet door to whatever suppression of the Fetishistic Impulse there had been imposed by societal standards... After Nov '63 it was anything goes... And it has been going ever since, with the purpose of  WOmWAm being to document the genesis of Fetishes appearing in Popular Media...

Your Dream Girl Has Turned Against You

The prevailing FEMMEnomena throughout the survey is that men constantly carry Fantasy Visions of WOmen in their hearts & minds, and in most WOmWAm instances these Fantasy Dream Girls use man's desire for the Dream Girl against him...

Prior to and during WWII the Dream Girl was best represented by the Calendar Girl or the Pin-up, offering not full-fledged Female Archetypes but Stereotypes (a stereotype is an archetype not empowered) as objects of worship, such as The Maid, The Nurse, or The Queen of Hearts...

With the radioactive retooling of Media Sexuality taking approximately 7 years to complete, the 1950s becomes epitomized by Marilyn Monroe, taking the Dream Girl off the page and fully blowing her up on screen...

Throughout the 50s the MM-inspired Dream Girl is depicted in a variety of Forms and Archetypes, all exploring how sexually appealing a WOman can be made to appear to beguile a man, and once beguiling him, what a WOman can either do to him, or have him do for her...

Pre-1963 Female Dominance is mainly through Tease & Titillation, Allure & Enticement, but eventually the Dominance becomes overt, as once Female Physicality is redefined, male sexual-psychology becomes the focus, with the turning point being from the Hugh Hefner Playboy Fantasy to the James Bond - Spy Femme Fatale... Hereafter more powerful, full-fledged Female Archetypes occur, WOmen become Physically Empowered to attack men, and The Dream Girl transforms into The Dominatrix... Sex transmogrifies from Simple Pleasure to Kinky Death, the Playboy Bunny becomes a SlayGirl, and the 19Sexties explore The Dream Girl as The Angel of Death...

What Happens When Watching

The sexual act is psychologically approximated / perverted as follows:

1) Arousal / Foreplay occurs as the WOman sets up a situation, leading to a male expectation that sex is about to ensue.

2) Sexual Climax is replaced by the opposite or the unexpected occurring as the WOman controls / changes the situation to her advantage.

Example
The WOman peels off her nylon, enticing the male to admire the beauty of her leg. He thinks he is about to make love to her (Arousal /Foreplay) as she puts her arms around him, but she strangles him with the nylon (Climax).

Legacy
 The male viewer identifies with the male character on screen and sexual arousal initiates.  Yet when the Perverted Climax occurs with no on-screen sex, the male viewer finds that rather than lessened, his arousal has increased, leading to masturbation.  Over time he discovers that rather than watch a man & a woman have sex, it is the perversion of the sexual dynamic that arouses him, with the climactic payoff being male recognition of Female Dominance.

In all FemmeFetish instances, the natural act of sex is replaced by the perverted act of the Fetish...
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